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As someone who's spent a lot of time creating safe, consensual BDSM experiences, I’ve seen the same thing over and over. Beginners often arrive curious, excited, and just a little nervous. And that’s completely normal. BDSM isn’t about pain, or punishment, or extremes, it’s about trust, communication, and learning what makes your body and mind feel empowered. Whether you’re trying kink with a partner, solo, or with a vetted professional, here’s the guidance I give to every fi

I don’t really know how to start this without sounding dramatic, but that's fine. I don’t really remember the first time I stumbled...

I used to be that person who felt like I had  to be on the main platforms. Especially Instagram and Twitter. But the more I posted in...