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I'm excited to announce a short visit to Jacksonville on June 12 and 13. This will be a brief tour with limited availability, so I encourage anyone interested in scheduling to reach out as early as possible. Whether we've met before or you've been waiting for an opportunity to connect, this is your chance before I return home. Availability is limited to these two days only, and scheduling will be handled on a first-come, first-served basis. If you're interested in reserving

Apparently those of you who kept insisting I should “get more online” and “make it easier to find my content” were onto something. I’d like the record to show that I resisted this for a surprisingly long time. I was prepared to remain mysterious and mildly technologically stubborn forever, but here we are. I’ve been making a few changes lately and I'm happy with how things are going. One thing I’ve finally decided to do is become a little more active online. Not in an overwh

I finally got my passport for the first time in my life, and it feels weirdly exciting in a way I didn’t expect. It’s one of those things I kept meaning to do for years but never really prioritized because life gets busy and suddenly a decade passes and you realize you still haven’t done something that seemed simple. For a long time I’ve had clients casually bring up flying me out or mention trips or ask if I ever travel internationally and I always had to give the same answ

Every so often, I receive screening emails from potential new clients that carry a familiar tone of hesitation. They ask why I only communicate through email, why I don’t allow chatting through ad sites, why I don’t maintain a strong social media presence, or why I’m not maintaining subscription platforms. There might be an assumption that because I operate differently, something must be missing. The reality that the way I run my practice is designed to protect my time, priva

Traveling for work always sounds glamorous on paper. In reality, it’s a mix of calendars, coordination, and making sure I don’t run myself ragged. Richmond was one of those trips where everything had to line up just right. Travel days, lodging, work commitments, personal downtime, and client communication all packed into a short window. I have to travel pretty intentionally or else the balance disappears fast. When I’m out of town, my priorities shift slightly. I plan more c

As someone who's spent a lot of time creating safe, consensual BDSM experiences, I’ve seen the same thing over and over. Beginners often arrive curious, excited, and just a little nervous. And that’s completely normal. BDSM isn’t about pain, or punishment, or extremes, it’s about trust, communication, and learning what makes your body and mind feel empowered. Whether you’re trying kink with a partner, solo, or with a vetted professional, here’s the guidance I give to every fi

I don’t really know how to start this without sounding dramatic, but that's fine. I don’t really remember the first time I stumbled...